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		<title>By: liz</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jul 2011 05:54:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I sincerely believe the bulk of Westerners do not behave like that. BUT, the caveat is the ones who arrive on our shores are indeed made up of a mostly high-than-thou pack. Another way of putting it: Out of 100% Westerners 90% are decent fellas and 10% are assholes and the 10% seem to be the ones who constantly come over to work and live here. 

I don&#039;t think stereotypes are all untrue, because it they were all untrue, Angry AngMo will need to close his blog because it is filled with stereotypes of Singaporeans. LOL! One of the comments said that Asians too can get rowdy after a few drinks, but the truth is, we don&#039;t usually end up having a brawl. I for one, don&#039;t know anybody who has been involved in a fight after getting drunk, and if you ask around I don&#039;t think there are too many who personally know someone, or knows someone who knows someone who has been involved in a bar bash. Caucasians, on the other hand, I&#039;m pretty sure most have at least witnessed one bar fight in their lives? Doesn&#039;t that say something? 

---&gt;&gt;&gt;Would a Westerner behave differently back in his home?”
yes. same for asians though. singaporean asians have the potential be worse when out of their environment since they have come from an oppressive society and might not know how to handle themselves when their family/parents/government are not available to judge them on their behaviour.&quot;&lt;&lt;&lt;---

Oppressive? So I suppose drunken fighting means you come from a liberal and truly democratic society? Alot of Westerners come to Singapore with the mindset that it is because of Singapore&#039;s laws that we are a &quot;scardey cat bunch&quot; and therefore oppressed. But it has never occurred to them that perhaps, just perhaps, the majority of us are simply NOT INCLINED to commit crime. I have never been robbed, and don&#039;t know anyone who has. If that is a sign of an &quot;oppressive&quot; society, than so be it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I sincerely believe the bulk of Westerners do not behave like that. BUT, the caveat is the ones who arrive on our shores are indeed made up of a mostly high-than-thou pack. Another way of putting it: Out of 100% Westerners 90% are decent fellas and 10% are assholes and the 10% seem to be the ones who constantly come over to work and live here. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think stereotypes are all untrue, because it they were all untrue, Angry AngMo will need to close his blog because it is filled with stereotypes of Singaporeans. LOL! One of the comments said that Asians too can get rowdy after a few drinks, but the truth is, we don&#8217;t usually end up having a brawl. I for one, don&#8217;t know anybody who has been involved in a fight after getting drunk, and if you ask around I don&#8217;t think there are too many who personally know someone, or knows someone who knows someone who has been involved in a bar bash. Caucasians, on the other hand, I&#8217;m pretty sure most have at least witnessed one bar fight in their lives? Doesn&#8217;t that say something? </p>
<p>&#8212;&gt;&gt;&gt;Would a Westerner behave differently back in his home?”<br />
yes. same for asians though. singaporean asians have the potential be worse when out of their environment since they have come from an oppressive society and might not know how to handle themselves when their family/parents/government are not available to judge them on their behaviour.&#8221;&lt;&lt;&lt;&#8212;</p>
<p>Oppressive? So I suppose drunken fighting means you come from a liberal and truly democratic society? Alot of Westerners come to Singapore with the mindset that it is because of Singapore&#039;s laws that we are a &quot;scardey cat bunch&quot; and therefore oppressed. But it has never occurred to them that perhaps, just perhaps, the majority of us are simply NOT INCLINED to commit crime. I have never been robbed, and don&#039;t know anyone who has. If that is a sign of an &quot;oppressive&quot; society, than so be it.</p>
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		<title>By: KL</title>
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		<dc:creator>KL</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 04:15:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmm....I noticed a lot of these people here tend to generalised the people. There rumours that Chinese are a cunning sorts, Malays are lazy, Indians are untrustworthy, Americans are obnoxious, English are imperialistic, Aussies are too lay back, Africans are violent.....these are just a generalisation!! Stop doing this.....this world is SHRINKING for goodness sake! 

I cannot believe people complains queing!! What&#039;s there to complain? Have not you heard online purchasing? Certain things do require you to queue. &#039;Queue then....stop complain&#039; But there are minority love to ignore seeing a queue and cut in it. What pisses me off that some don&#039;t even bothered about that!! But complain for having a queue oh pleaseeee....... 

During my stay in the UK, I have met many poeple from all over the world and we become close friends, not those go out clubbing and get pissed in a club but decent ones. We hang out a lot, they invite me to their Thanksgiving dinner, picnics at the park in the summers and of course few pints at the bars or pubs. But I do occasionally come across with discrimination ( Hey?! where in this world we do not have this issue, be it minor or major!!) But having discriminated by my own race, Chinks, I myself find it at times unbearable. I feel disgusted and sometimes embarassed. Sad to say that this happens to me in Singapore. 

To say that most Brits love to booze yes this I must admit. Just like the locals they love their food. Back in the UK, we tend to have some exciting things to watch at the end of the night, women slapped the men for molestation and other funny things. If things get worst police officers will be there to stop the whole &#039;riot&#039;. So let me ask you this, don&#039;t you think a similar scene will ever happen in Singapore after a heavy drinking session?! Besides, what makes you think the locals can behave well when they are pissed?! Alcohols is alchols, mate. It works the same to everyone regardless of colour, gender and age!!!!

As for the Ang Mos....( why locals name such names. Why don we call ourselves chinks?!Bet they won&#039;t like it) Anyway, for the non-locals we have to understand why they bahave as such. Example, the English used to expand their colonial power by ruling other countries including S&#039;pore. Locals including Singapore and Malaya those days were not as advanced as the British (FACTS 1) therefore we were under their ruling. I have never heard any negative comments form my grandparents during the British Empire (I am neither falsify the facts nor phraising them. Brutally honest they were &#039;robbing&#039; us those day) Bear in mind, they have done well to educate us to improve us (FACTS 2).  Unfortunately, youngster these days still thinks that &quot;well my great great great granddad was &#039;ere ruled your country so listen to me&quot; kind of mentality. Well, you think it only happen here in Singapore? No, it happens everywhere.  

I am an Oriental and raised in Malaysia but I have, and still adapted best of both what the Wetsern and Eastern cultures can offer me. You can call me a BANANA and that&#039;s fine as I am used to it nowadays. What I can tell you is that people who envy people like myself or even the Eurasians having such &#039;Ang Mo&#039; interior / thinking  in a Chinky&#039;s exterior / skin or the other way round should be known The OXYMORONS!! They cannot learn to accept the goods of the west and not admitting their eastern flaws. Why do they resort to that?! You have already got the answer yourself...keeping face, KIASU. But what is there to keep face if you want to embrace the goods and becoming a better person.

Undoubtedly Malaysia is a corrupted country. The cops do ask for &#039;coffee money&#039; because their pay is shite. Several times I managed to get away from nasi-lemak gobbling, huge belly  cops by telling them I have just returned from UK and on my way to visit few friends.  Maybe they could not talk to me like how I was trained to speak so they just let me go. Driving a Singapore plate car would not help you at all cuz they know you are OBVIOUSLY loaded S&#039;poreans who don mind paying these fat basterds. 

Donna is right. What is Singapore without the foreigners?! We are just like the British Empire back in the mid 20th century we provide you our expertise and help you to grow. Is this what we get in return?? Singapore is a growing nation so I have no doubts that the locals somehow despise us.

So, stop making irrelevant, judgemental, ludicrous racial biased generalisations on everyone. And stop pointing fingers and making you-are-an-idiot-and-I-am-not statement. That makes everyone looks like idiots / c**ts. We should treat everyone as an individual and just deal on a particular subject. Not mixing everything up. We don&#039;t do rojak here.....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmm&#8230;.I noticed a lot of these people here tend to generalised the people. There rumours that Chinese are a cunning sorts, Malays are lazy, Indians are untrustworthy, Americans are obnoxious, English are imperialistic, Aussies are too lay back, Africans are violent&#8230;..these are just a generalisation!! Stop doing this&#8230;..this world is SHRINKING for goodness sake! </p>
<p>I cannot believe people complains queing!! What&#8217;s there to complain? Have not you heard online purchasing? Certain things do require you to queue. &#8216;Queue then&#8230;.stop complain&#8217; But there are minority love to ignore seeing a queue and cut in it. What pisses me off that some don&#8217;t even bothered about that!! But complain for having a queue oh pleaseeee&#8230;&#8230;. </p>
<p>During my stay in the UK, I have met many poeple from all over the world and we become close friends, not those go out clubbing and get pissed in a club but decent ones. We hang out a lot, they invite me to their Thanksgiving dinner, picnics at the park in the summers and of course few pints at the bars or pubs. But I do occasionally come across with discrimination ( Hey?! where in this world we do not have this issue, be it minor or major!!) But having discriminated by my own race, Chinks, I myself find it at times unbearable. I feel disgusted and sometimes embarassed. Sad to say that this happens to me in Singapore. </p>
<p>To say that most Brits love to booze yes this I must admit. Just like the locals they love their food. Back in the UK, we tend to have some exciting things to watch at the end of the night, women slapped the men for molestation and other funny things. If things get worst police officers will be there to stop the whole &#8216;riot&#8217;. So let me ask you this, don&#8217;t you think a similar scene will ever happen in Singapore after a heavy drinking session?! Besides, what makes you think the locals can behave well when they are pissed?! Alcohols is alchols, mate. It works the same to everyone regardless of colour, gender and age!!!!</p>
<p>As for the Ang Mos&#8230;.( why locals name such names. Why don we call ourselves chinks?!Bet they won&#8217;t like it) Anyway, for the non-locals we have to understand why they bahave as such. Example, the English used to expand their colonial power by ruling other countries including S&#8217;pore. Locals including Singapore and Malaya those days were not as advanced as the British (FACTS 1) therefore we were under their ruling. I have never heard any negative comments form my grandparents during the British Empire (I am neither falsify the facts nor phraising them. Brutally honest they were &#8216;robbing&#8217; us those day) Bear in mind, they have done well to educate us to improve us (FACTS 2).  Unfortunately, youngster these days still thinks that &#8220;well my great great great granddad was &#8216;ere ruled your country so listen to me&#8221; kind of mentality. Well, you think it only happen here in Singapore? No, it happens everywhere.  </p>
<p>I am an Oriental and raised in Malaysia but I have, and still adapted best of both what the Wetsern and Eastern cultures can offer me. You can call me a BANANA and that&#8217;s fine as I am used to it nowadays. What I can tell you is that people who envy people like myself or even the Eurasians having such &#8216;Ang Mo&#8217; interior / thinking  in a Chinky&#8217;s exterior / skin or the other way round should be known The OXYMORONS!! They cannot learn to accept the goods of the west and not admitting their eastern flaws. Why do they resort to that?! You have already got the answer yourself&#8230;keeping face, KIASU. But what is there to keep face if you want to embrace the goods and becoming a better person.</p>
<p>Undoubtedly Malaysia is a corrupted country. The cops do ask for &#8216;coffee money&#8217; because their pay is shite. Several times I managed to get away from nasi-lemak gobbling, huge belly  cops by telling them I have just returned from UK and on my way to visit few friends.  Maybe they could not talk to me like how I was trained to speak so they just let me go. Driving a Singapore plate car would not help you at all cuz they know you are OBVIOUSLY loaded S&#8217;poreans who don mind paying these fat basterds. </p>
<p>Donna is right. What is Singapore without the foreigners?! We are just like the British Empire back in the mid 20th century we provide you our expertise and help you to grow. Is this what we get in return?? Singapore is a growing nation so I have no doubts that the locals somehow despise us.</p>
<p>So, stop making irrelevant, judgemental, ludicrous racial biased generalisations on everyone. And stop pointing fingers and making you-are-an-idiot-and-I-am-not statement. That makes everyone looks like idiots / c**ts. We should treat everyone as an individual and just deal on a particular subject. Not mixing everything up. We don&#8217;t do rojak here&#8230;..</p>
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		<title>By: rachel</title>
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		<dc:creator>rachel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 06:21:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>whoa, whoa. malaysian cops stop singaporean cars whenever they spot us and ask for &quot;coffee money&quot;. you -need- to know this.</description>
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		<title>By: admin</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 07:23:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;msian cops are easily bought&quot; , thats an actual quite bad thing, is malaysia really that corrupt?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;msian cops are easily bought&#8221; , thats an actual quite bad thing, is malaysia really that corrupt?</p>
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		<title>By: A.I</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 03:51:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>of course. just invite any singaporeans to malaysia and see how they act. throwing rambutan skins out of their car windows. or rubbish next to the rubbish bin. flicking their cigarettes across the street and having a good laugh while doing it. never respect the local road and traffic regulations. since they are so oppressed in singapore, i think that&#039;s how they blow off steam knowing that msian cops are easily bought.  singaporeans are not more civilised than their asean neighbours, it&#039;s jst that they are scared stiff of their law. just like some westerners.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>of course. just invite any singaporeans to malaysia and see how they act. throwing rambutan skins out of their car windows. or rubbish next to the rubbish bin. flicking their cigarettes across the street and having a good laugh while doing it. never respect the local road and traffic regulations. since they are so oppressed in singapore, i think that&#8217;s how they blow off steam knowing that msian cops are easily bought.  singaporeans are not more civilised than their asean neighbours, it&#8217;s jst that they are scared stiff of their law. just like some westerners.</p>
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		<title>By: lin</title>
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		<dc:creator>lin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 14:35:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>what was described can also happen between two white people or two singaporeans. As human beings we see differences more thans similarities..if the person is my race I would be &quot;oh it&#039;s his/her character&quot; but if it&#039;s a different race I would be &quot;dumb white person must be a white trait!&quot;. It is sad but it happens.. people of any race can get drunk and obnoxious. Maybe try to avoid places where there are lots of drunk obnoxious people? lol.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>what was described can also happen between two white people or two singaporeans. As human beings we see differences more thans similarities..if the person is my race I would be &#8220;oh it&#8217;s his/her character&#8221; but if it&#8217;s a different race I would be &#8220;dumb white person must be a white trait!&#8221;. It is sad but it happens.. people of any race can get drunk and obnoxious. Maybe try to avoid places where there are lots of drunk obnoxious people? lol.</p>
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		<title>By: donna lipowitz</title>
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		<dc:creator>donna lipowitz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 05:58:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am an Australian who is living here with my boyfriend who has a job making computer games. We are here because of 2 reasons.. the recession in Australia and this great career opportunity.
I am here to support him and am unable to work  myself due to an illness. 
We live modestly in a HDB flat in Ang Mo Kio ; and ironically; I have red hair... : ) 
..in fact possibly the only Ang Mo in Ang Mo Kio : )
You are all so angry; not all us Ang Mos are the same you know; be careful of hypocrisy. 
there are so many different nationalities of&quot;Westerners&quot; here. Americans (in general sorry to offend) are considered quite arrogant ; compared to us layed back Australians. the English &quot;poms&quot; are stereotypically &quot;whingers&quot;.. then there are Germans, French.. the list goes on... we&#039;re all different, goes without saying...
Where I lived in Australia my favourite neighbours were Indian and Indonesian. Australia had so many races; and we are all immigrants; a mix of every kind. Asian, Western, African...  I myself have a German born father, an English born mother..
It takes an open minded person to accept a new culture; and we can only learn by spending time with each other....angry Ang Mo&#039;s or &#039;Singaporeans&#039; alike. 
to refer to the phrase&quot;Home Turf&quot; to quote &quot;jiakliaobee&quot;BUT the topic is about these ang moh GUESTS in our home turf.
.. you want to keep people off &quot;Your &quot; turf?
Ang Mos are not the only &quot;Foreigners here&quot;, and you cant say all Asian cultures are the same,  since being here I have now friends from Korea Indonesia, The Philippines,  China, .. 
Should we all go home? What about your economy? Does it not thrive on tourism? International trade? Who designs much of your fabulous architecture?
We&#039;re not all from wealthy backgrounds who live in Orchard in Condos you know. We are just regular people on another adventure in our lives.
Xmiss d aka only ang mo in ang mo kio</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am an Australian who is living here with my boyfriend who has a job making computer games. We are here because of 2 reasons.. the recession in Australia and this great career opportunity.<br />
I am here to support him and am unable to work  myself due to an illness.<br />
We live modestly in a HDB flat in Ang Mo Kio ; and ironically; I have red hair&#8230; : )<br />
..in fact possibly the only Ang Mo in Ang Mo Kio : )<br />
You are all so angry; not all us Ang Mos are the same you know; be careful of hypocrisy.<br />
there are so many different nationalities of&#8221;Westerners&#8221; here. Americans (in general sorry to offend) are considered quite arrogant ; compared to us layed back Australians. the English &#8220;poms&#8221; are stereotypically &#8220;whingers&#8221;.. then there are Germans, French.. the list goes on&#8230; we&#8217;re all different, goes without saying&#8230;<br />
Where I lived in Australia my favourite neighbours were Indian and Indonesian. Australia had so many races; and we are all immigrants; a mix of every kind. Asian, Western, African&#8230;  I myself have a German born father, an English born mother..<br />
It takes an open minded person to accept a new culture; and we can only learn by spending time with each other&#8230;.angry Ang Mo&#8217;s or &#8216;Singaporeans&#8217; alike.<br />
to refer to the phrase&#8221;Home Turf&#8221; to quote &#8220;jiakliaobee&#8221;BUT the topic is about these ang moh GUESTS in our home turf.<br />
.. you want to keep people off &#8220;Your &#8221; turf?<br />
Ang Mos are not the only &#8220;Foreigners here&#8221;, and you cant say all Asian cultures are the same,  since being here I have now friends from Korea Indonesia, The Philippines,  China, ..<br />
Should we all go home? What about your economy? Does it not thrive on tourism? International trade? Who designs much of your fabulous architecture?<br />
We&#8217;re not all from wealthy backgrounds who live in Orchard in Condos you know. We are just regular people on another adventure in our lives.<br />
Xmiss d aka only ang mo in ang mo kio</p>
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		<title>By: Bahrain Taxi</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2009 14:08:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well I&#039;m a Ang Moh in Bahrain except we&#039;re not called Ang Mohs but Ajnarbis or Karfirs if we&#039;re really unlucky. Arab culture is chaotic, standing in line is unheard of here, its only us foreigners that do it.  It&#039;s each man for himself on the road!  If you want something done it&#039;s &quot;Inshallah&quot; and you go away hoping that Allah will &#039;will&#039; it for you. In Singapore everything was as good as done before I had a chance to say thankyou. If I did live move over to Singapore, I think my 7 years in the Gulf would make me come across as extremely undisciplined, laid back to the point of lazy and disorganised. However, Bahrain is a controlled society in a Islamic way and I think I waved bye bye to my western liberal attitude long ago.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well I&#8217;m a Ang Moh in Bahrain except we&#8217;re not called Ang Mohs but Ajnarbis or Karfirs if we&#8217;re really unlucky. Arab culture is chaotic, standing in line is unheard of here, its only us foreigners that do it.  It&#8217;s each man for himself on the road!  If you want something done it&#8217;s &#8220;Inshallah&#8221; and you go away hoping that Allah will &#8216;will&#8217; it for you. In Singapore everything was as good as done before I had a chance to say thankyou. If I did live move over to Singapore, I think my 7 years in the Gulf would make me come across as extremely undisciplined, laid back to the point of lazy and disorganised. However, Bahrain is a controlled society in a Islamic way and I think I waved bye bye to my western liberal attitude long ago.</p>
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		<title>By: jiakliaobee</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 12:08:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Pardon me but is it true that Westerners, men, women alike, all seem to feel more superior than Asians and hence become unbecoming and aggressive?&quot;

Meicheelicious, you are spot on. You see, back home they belong to the lower social class - for instance from the council estate. And when they come to Asia, they just feel that they must act *superior* to Asians. Who are considered lower class back home in the West. To them, every Asian is the same, because we all *look* the same, mah. You&#039;d be amazed that many of these ang mohs can&#039;t tell the different between Chinese, Malay and Indian amongst us.

But I digress. Many more expect us to possess the same behaviours and mindsets of THEIR Asians back home.  And they don&#039;t expect us to speak and write fluent English. Because THEIR Asians don&#039;t. So when we so much as to able to ARGUE and put up a good VERBAL fight, that&#039;s when they go below the belt. 

Oh and they hate it when they found out that we appear more successful and wealthier. I wish I am making this up, but my experience with them at work and on certain networking platforms seem to repeat ad nauseum.

They would only treat us nicely if we play up the stereotype. And not to upset the status quo. Being a woman, I was expected to behave and talk like those chow ah lian who cannot get their English correctly. OR get visibly excited at the mere sight of an ang moh.

I cannot deny there are those genuinely nice ones. But it is those inferior types that spoil the good name of the rest. Sure, the rest of you would argue till the cows come home that there are ugly Singaporeans. BUT the topic is about these ang moh GUESTS in our home turf.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Pardon me but is it true that Westerners, men, women alike, all seem to feel more superior than Asians and hence become unbecoming and aggressive?&#8221;</p>
<p>Meicheelicious, you are spot on. You see, back home they belong to the lower social class &#8211; for instance from the council estate. And when they come to Asia, they just feel that they must act *superior* to Asians. Who are considered lower class back home in the West. To them, every Asian is the same, because we all *look* the same, mah. You&#8217;d be amazed that many of these ang mohs can&#8217;t tell the different between Chinese, Malay and Indian amongst us.</p>
<p>But I digress. Many more expect us to possess the same behaviours and mindsets of THEIR Asians back home.  And they don&#8217;t expect us to speak and write fluent English. Because THEIR Asians don&#8217;t. So when we so much as to able to ARGUE and put up a good VERBAL fight, that&#8217;s when they go below the belt. </p>
<p>Oh and they hate it when they found out that we appear more successful and wealthier. I wish I am making this up, but my experience with them at work and on certain networking platforms seem to repeat ad nauseum.</p>
<p>They would only treat us nicely if we play up the stereotype. And not to upset the status quo. Being a woman, I was expected to behave and talk like those chow ah lian who cannot get their English correctly. OR get visibly excited at the mere sight of an ang moh.</p>
<p>I cannot deny there are those genuinely nice ones. But it is those inferior types that spoil the good name of the rest. Sure, the rest of you would argue till the cows come home that there are ugly Singaporeans. BUT the topic is about these ang moh GUESTS in our home turf.</p>
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		<title>By: Elson Khoo</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2009 17:32:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Being stereotyped is a way of seeing differences and a way of how we deal with it. While humans are not cookies coming from a cookie cutter - it is true that certain people from a certain group (be it race, country whatever) &#039;typically&#039; act in a certain way. Knowing that helps us deal with different people, because then we kind of know what to expect, though at the back of our mind, there should always still be this little reminder to ourselves that not everyone will be the same.

Why are we so afraid of being called a &#039;typical Singaporean&#039;? It is true that many of our locals exhibit these traits (and so do many other people as well; but these are the specific ones that have been picked up on) - if you do not, then fine, clarify yourself as atypical. People do understand stereotypes do not apply to everyone.

There is nothing wrong with being interested in free gifts and anything free. (Magic Babe Ning was probably doing a tongue in cheek quip, and personally i enjoyed the little segment at very much, though that&#039;s got nothing to do with the comment here) There&#039;s also nothing wrong with queuing (thank god for queues actually - imagine the mayhem without them), nothing wrong with the pointers that louie has pointed out as &#039;typical stereotypes&#039;.

I personally feel that only insecure people are uncomfortable with that. Why not acknowledge the stereotyping and if it is negative, work towards changing that?

Stereotypes are based in our own minds upon interaction with these certain group of people over time. In this case, there&#039;s no mention of prior interactions that the author has had. It is constantly shifting based on the interactions as they come along. 

If the author has set the stereotype as such because of a first time interaction, i would say that it is too much of a stretch. 

We must, at the end of it all, simply understand that humans are complex machines. Be it that they are from the same group - each and everyone is unique as an individual, so one should always keep an open mind. The stereotype may not be the right or best gauge of how to interact with a person base on whichever group he comes from, but presuming nothing is known of the person, gives us a basis to start our interaction upon.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Being stereotyped is a way of seeing differences and a way of how we deal with it. While humans are not cookies coming from a cookie cutter &#8211; it is true that certain people from a certain group (be it race, country whatever) &#8216;typically&#8217; act in a certain way. Knowing that helps us deal with different people, because then we kind of know what to expect, though at the back of our mind, there should always still be this little reminder to ourselves that not everyone will be the same.</p>
<p>Why are we so afraid of being called a &#8216;typical Singaporean&#8217;? It is true that many of our locals exhibit these traits (and so do many other people as well; but these are the specific ones that have been picked up on) &#8211; if you do not, then fine, clarify yourself as atypical. People do understand stereotypes do not apply to everyone.</p>
<p>There is nothing wrong with being interested in free gifts and anything free. (Magic Babe Ning was probably doing a tongue in cheek quip, and personally i enjoyed the little segment at very much, though that&#8217;s got nothing to do with the comment here) There&#8217;s also nothing wrong with queuing (thank god for queues actually &#8211; imagine the mayhem without them), nothing wrong with the pointers that louie has pointed out as &#8216;typical stereotypes&#8217;.</p>
<p>I personally feel that only insecure people are uncomfortable with that. Why not acknowledge the stereotyping and if it is negative, work towards changing that?</p>
<p>Stereotypes are based in our own minds upon interaction with these certain group of people over time. In this case, there&#8217;s no mention of prior interactions that the author has had. It is constantly shifting based on the interactions as they come along. </p>
<p>If the author has set the stereotype as such because of a first time interaction, i would say that it is too much of a stretch. </p>
<p>We must, at the end of it all, simply understand that humans are complex machines. Be it that they are from the same group &#8211; each and everyone is unique as an individual, so one should always keep an open mind. The stereotype may not be the right or best gauge of how to interact with a person base on whichever group he comes from, but presuming nothing is known of the person, gives us a basis to start our interaction upon.</p>
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